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Topic: Advice please? (It's urgent! ...sorta...)
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Ariel author of The Lost Smurfette
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posted 06-12-2019 12:12 PM
Hey guys, long time no smurf, but over the past week and a half, I have been walking to the park in my neighborhood to do my exercise. On the first day I went, I made friends with a boy (Reiss). I really like him, and today he asked me if I would like to go out for coffee with him next week... I said yes, of course... We even had our first kiss!
But I'm nervous about it. I mean, I really don't think I should be... This is something I have been fantasizing about for... Almost forever... And I feel more like myself around him than with anyone else on earth...
Is it possible that this Ariel has finally found her own Brainy Smurf?
Please, if anybody has even a little bit to say about this, your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you smurfs, have a good day.
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Posts: 1301 | From: Soul Searching... Somewhere in Florida, | Registered: Aug 2014
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Sweet Smurf 2
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posted 06-16-2019 03:23 PM
Simply: Don't go too fast on the relationship!
Posts: 696 | From: New Zealand | Registered: Jan 2014
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smurfberries
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posted 07-25-2019 11:22 AM
I know that this forum hasnt had a new reply for a long time, but in my expirience, i would say that the biggest thing i should have been told when i was your age (im only 19, but, have been through more than i wish i had been) is not to look for myself in other people. I know thats something you hear about in movies and shows, but, that mindset isnt healthy because you have to build up your own individual love and self awareness for, well, you! As far as your potential relationship itself, my best advice is to take it slow, enjoy your time together, and dont take it all too seriously too fast. Some of the best relationships blossom when you just let things happen instead of forcing them to happen. This is just my general advice from expirience since i dont know anything about the situation other than what youve said, so i hope that things are going well for you! Much love!
Posts: 43 | From: Orlando, Florida | Registered: Aug 2018
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smurfberries
Smurfling
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posted 07-25-2019 11:16 PM
Oh wha? Im not sure why i was certain you said you were younger than that before, i guess i must have confused you with another person somehow? Im so sorry about that! Maybe i was looking through a forum from years ago or something where you mentioned your age and i didnt realize what year that was from. My apologies!
Also, thats not fair to you at all. Im so sorry that happend. Definitely dont waste your time waiting on that, okay? Youre worth more than that. Its okay to be upset over it, but thats a great mindset to have; sometimes things just dont work out, for whatever reason. It helps us learn whats worth it and whats not. So in the end, even if it hurts to have to move on from something we were excited about, its (usually) whats best for us, in one way or another. So many people come and go in life. It helps us appreciate the people who are here to stay.
Posts: 43 | From: Orlando, Florida | Registered: Aug 2018
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